MidTMike Posted August 26, 2009 Report Share Posted August 26, 2009 Sometimes you want to get it on with a man. Sometimes a girl seems like a good idea. Sometimes both have their own unique appeal. Gay or straight we all have a desire to try something a little different. That’s what makes Thailand a great place to visit; you can literally have your boobs and eat cock too! Perhaps the most celebrated part of Thailand’s gay culture are the famous Ladyboys that can be found in even the smallest rural villages. While Ladyboys are similar to Western transvestites, there are some huge cultural differences. The most important difference comes from Thai history and traditions. According to legends from Northern Thailand, the first man and woman had three children, a boy, a girl and a “third sex.†Today the “third sex†is considered to be the Ladyboys; which may explain why there are at least 180,000 of these “girls†spread throughout Thailand. Other legends say that Ladyboys are actually the reincarnation of men who made love to many, many women in a former lifetime: so that they now permanently carry the spirit of women in their bodies. Katoey Toys! Referred to in Thailand as Katoey, these “girls†are certainly no drag queens. In most cases a lot of care and time has been spent to make sure these guys look like real women: and not the exaggerated female stereotypes common in American drag shows. While these girls all have hot cocks under their skirts many have realized that size matters everywhere; and have larger than life boobs to complete their picture of a feminine ideal Ladyboys are, in general, an accepted and respected part of Thai society. In most cases they don’t suffer anywhere near as much prejudice as their western counterparts and are usually almost fully accepted as the women they are trying to be. Let Them Entertain You! Many of the Katoey perform in the cabaret shows that have become hugely popular in Thailand’s gay bars. The best Ladyboy cabaret shows can be found in Pattaya, the beach town south of Bangkok. Some of the larger Katoey shows literally feature dozens, if not hundreds of Ladyboys for your eye candy. There are also many escort agencies that offer Ladyboys on demand. You can find them in our listings or by checking out advertisements at many of the local gay establishments. Tips And Tricks For Chicks With Dicks! You need to be a little careful when dealing with Ladyboys outside of a supervised host bar. In Pattaya in particular there have been cases of Ladyboys who troll the beaches at night in order to mug tourists when they have their pants down. Don’t let this get you down! Most Ladyboys are nice people. There are just a few rotten apples in any barrel! Another important thing to keep in mind is that not all Ladyboys are bottoms. Some can top with the best of them, so when you first start talking with an attractive he/she you should make your preferences known: so that you don’t get more than you bargained for out of the experience! Also be aware that some Ladyboys are full on transsexuals and may have either taken hormones, been castrated or both. Figuring out what type of Ladyboy you are talking to can often be part of the fun. In general if you are in a gay bar talking to a feminine looking thing, you can assume that the girl was a boy at one time and may be now. Guessing before you take off her skit can be a challenge, because the Thai male body type lends itself very well to creating a feminine mystique. Host Bars Ladies More often than not Ladyboys can be rented out for a night of fun in the host bars; and surprisingly enough are popular entertainers for both gay and straight audiences! Because Thailand society treats Ladyboys with respect, you should as well. Just because you are paying for their time does not give you a license to abuse, insult or treat them any differently than you would like to be treated. Ladyboys are people too! Many Ladyboys suffered severe financial hardship when the tsunami cut into Thailand tourism. Often Ladyboys have families to support: so we encourage you to be generous if you should find yourself out on a date with a “girl†with something extra between her legs! For many of us to visit here often, the loving nature of the Ladyboys is a big appeal to visit Thailand. Many of the will take in the boys who first come to work on the bars and take care of them. The people of Thailand are very accepting of homosexuality and Ladyboys. Please leave your prejudices and misconceptions about Ladyboys or Dragqueens in your home country. They are truly one of the most amazing parts of Thai culture and deserve your respect! cc: 2005-2009 GayThailand.com Reprinted on ThailandVisa.com with permission 2009 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoker Posted September 8, 2009 Report Share Posted September 8, 2009 In general are ladyboys "functional" down there? Or are the dangly bits more ornamental? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaimo Posted September 8, 2009 Report Share Posted September 8, 2009 In general are ladyboys "functional" down there?Most are quite functional. As a matter of fact, a great many are 'tops'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eleothegreat Posted September 15, 2009 Report Share Posted September 15, 2009 The one in the middle looks absolutely like a girl. The two other ones, you can tell that they're guys. But nevertheless, it's amazing. I have a friend who just arrived from Thailand with BOOBS on. They're even bigger than mine! Hahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoker Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Boobs are the best part of a girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eleothegreat Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Hahaha. LOL. I suppose, especially if they're huge! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wino Posted September 23, 2009 Report Share Posted September 23, 2009 Most are quite functional. As a matter of fact, a great many are 'tops'.A great many are tops? Since I do not have much experience with katoeys, this statement is surprising. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoker Posted September 23, 2009 Report Share Posted September 23, 2009 I'm not sure I'd want a girl with a penis if she wasn't willing and able to use the penis on me. Otherwise I could just have anal sex with a girl! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wino Posted September 23, 2009 Report Share Posted September 23, 2009 I wonder if the lesbians like the ladyboys that can top? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lvdkeyes Posted September 23, 2009 Report Share Posted September 23, 2009 I don't understand, not condemn, guys who want to have sex with a ladyboy. Why not just a real girl or a guy if one wants to be bottom? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wino Posted September 23, 2009 Report Share Posted September 23, 2009 I don't understand, not condemn, guys who want to have sex with a ladyboy. Why not just a real girl or a guy if one wants to be bottom?Different strokes for different folks. I would think if enjoy sex with a ladyboy, you would also enjoy sex with a woman. Does not always work out like that, for some reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaimo Posted September 24, 2009 Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 I occasionally enjoy lady boys. If you are looking for bar workers, most of the gay bars have a few lady boys. In Pattaya, if you are looking for a lady-boy go-go bar, I think the best is Stringfellows. Drink prices are 100 baht for most drinks. Their off fee is rather high, though. 500 baht to take one of the dancers off. There are also lady boy personals web sites. Look at the following if you are interested: http://www.mythailadyboy.com/index.php http://www.pattayashemales.com/bars.htm http://www.pattayaphotoguide.com/stringfellows-go-go http://www.pattayaladyboys.net/forum/index.php?topic=166.0'>http://www.pattayaladyboys.net/forum/index.php?topic=166.0 http://www.pattayagogos.com/gogopl.asp http://www.pattayaladyboys.net/forum/index.php Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaimo Posted September 24, 2009 Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 I occasionally enjoy lady boys. If you are looking for bar workers, most of the gay bars have a few lady boys. In Pattaya, if you are looking for a lady-boy go-go bar, I think the best is Stringfellows. Drink prices are 100 baht for most drinks. Their off fee is rather high, though. 500 baht to take one of the dancers off. There are also lady boy personals web sites. Look at the following if you are interested: http://www.mythailadyboy.com/index.php http://www.pattayashemales.com/bars.htm http://www.pattayaphotoguide.com/stringfellows-go-go http://www.pattayagogos.com/gogopl.asp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WannaGo Posted September 24, 2009 Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 Excuse my ignorance here, but are ladyboys like pre-op transsexuals in the States...they intend to become full-on women and just have a cock while saving up for the operation? Or, do they purposely have boobs and feminine appearance and a cock? Do they tend to be both masculine and feminine, or tend more to feminine? Just curious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wino Posted September 24, 2009 Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 Excuse my ignorance here, but are ladyboys like pre-op transsexuals in the States...they intend to become full-on women and just have a cock while saving up for the operation? Or, do they purposely have boobs and feminine appearance and a cock? Do they tend to be both masculine and feminine, or tend more to feminine? Just curious.Excellent questions. I do not think there is one answer. Everyone ladyboy, I would think, is different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wino Posted September 24, 2009 Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 Boobs are the best part of a girl.I would have to disagree. The best part of a girl, in my humble opinion, is the nice round ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 24, 2009 Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 In Bangkok, there are a bunch of ladyboy bars in Nana Plaza. Pattaya, there are three ladyboy gogos, Stringfellows (Soi 13/1) mentioned above, Obssesions/Kitten Club (Soi Pattyland 2)and Limmiquai (Soi Diamond) plus a whole bunch of ladyboy bars. Probably the gentlest introduction to ladyboys is at Sally's Bar on Soi 5 in Jomtien not far from Immigration. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 24, 2009 Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 I wonder if the lesbians like the ladyboys that can top? No. By the way butch lesbians in Thailand are called Toms and lipstick lesbians as called Dees. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WannaGo Posted September 25, 2009 Report Share Posted September 25, 2009 Ok, this is all way out of my experience range, so you're getting me curious. I know sexual preferences are all a matter of personal taste and that reasons vary from person to person, but I'd be interested in hearing from the guys who like ladyboys...what's the appeal for you? For example, I get turned on by sexually aggressive women because, at heart, I'm a lazy bastard and like when they just take what they want instead of making me work to give it. So, how about it guys...what is it about the ladyboys that does it for you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaimo Posted September 25, 2009 Report Share Posted September 25, 2009 what is it about the ladyboys that does it for you?My tastes are by no means limited to lady boys. Sometimes I'm into them and sometimes not. I don't know how to answer your question. That's like asking someone what they like about the color green. It's either something you like, something that does not appeal to you, or something that appeals to you on occasion. When you come to Thailand, try going to a good lady boy bar and decide for yourself if it is something you can get into. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lvdkeyes Posted September 25, 2009 Report Share Posted September 25, 2009 I don't need to go to a ladyboy bar to know it is not my thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WannaGo Posted September 25, 2009 Report Share Posted September 25, 2009 I don't know how to answer your question. That's like asking someone what they like about the color green. It's either something you like, something that does not appeal to you, or something that appeals to you on occasion. When you come to Thailand, try going to a good lady boy bar and decide for yourself if it is something you can get into. Fair enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaimo Posted September 26, 2009 Report Share Posted September 26, 2009 Fair enough.Yes. They don't appeal to lvdkeyes. I am one that they appeal to on occasion. I have a close gay friend who wants only lady boys. Everyone is different, which is why I say to you to try some lady boy bars to see if they appeal to you or not. I like the ones who do not over-makeup themselves. Some use so much makeup that they make Tammy Bakker look like a beginner. They must spend hours and hours every day applying their makeup and probably spend far too high a percentage of their income buying it. That type and the really swishy overly feminine types that dress and publicly behave like cheap sluts never appeal to me. There are others that are not like that and those are the ones that do it for me. But I cannot tell you, or even myself, what it is about them that I often find very appealing. I cannot put a definition on it. Two can be standing right next to each other, both being almost exactly the same type, but one will appeal to me and the other doesn't. I don't know why. I am happy to be living in a society where I can walk down the street hand in hand with a lady boy and if she is an obvious lady boy the only icy stares I ever get come from foreigners. Thailand is a country where you do not have to be embarrassed or ashamed if you like lady boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoker Posted September 26, 2009 Report Share Posted September 26, 2009 I would say it's that you get a pretty face and nice boobs, but also get familiar equipment to work with down below. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 26, 2009 Report Share Posted September 26, 2009 Some other Pattaya ladyboy bars: LaBamba Soi 13/1 EZY Bar Soi BJ (gotta like that street name) Pook Swan House Soi Buckhaou Pook Bar Soi 6 So What Bar Soi 6 Hi Boss Soi 6 Jenny Star Bar Walking Street Linda Bar Walking Street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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